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Sincera's Library

Recommended Books

 

 

 "Blended or Blitzed: Winning at the Blended Family Journey" (Gunter) - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07RVDCMYL/ref=rdr_ext_sb_ti_hist_1

~ "The Antisocial Personality Disorder:  Its Impact on Family, Relationships, Business, and the Community" (Gunter) -https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07S1D72HT/ref=sr_1_1?qid=1558135477&refinements=p_27%3AMary+Anne+Gunter&s=digital-text&sr=1-1&text=Mary+Anne+Gunter

~ "And Every Word Is True" (McAvoy) - https://www.garymcavoy.com

~ "Braving the Wilderness..." (Brown) - https://www.amazon.com/Braving-Wilderness-quest-belonging-courage/dp/1785041754/ref=pd_sim_14_4?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=1785041754&pd_rd_r=9287e9e3-23ee-11e9-be91-c98cce466c71&pd_rd_w=U1SmJ&pd_rd_wg=TtYlb&pf_rd_p=90485860-83e9-4fd9-b838-b28a9b7fda30&pf_rd_r=AH8W51R3X7Q34F72SQ7D&psc=1&refRID=AH8W51R3X7Q34F72SQ7D

~ "Daring Greatly" (Brown) - https://www.amazon.com/Daring-Greatly-Courage-Vulnerable-Transforms/dp/1592408419

~ "The Gifts of Imperfection" (Brown) - https://www.amazon.com/Gifts-Imperfection-Think-Supposed-Embrace/dp/159285849X/ref=pd_lpo_sbs_14_t_1?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=91SZZD196360W039DKWT

~ "Rising Strong..." (Brown) - https://www.amazon.com/Rising-Strong-Ability-Transforms-Parent/dp/081298580X/ref=pd_sim_14_3?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=081298580X&pd_rd_r=9287e9e3-23ee-11e9-be91-c98cce466c71&pd_rd_w=U1SmJ&pd_rd_wg=TtYlb&pf_rd_p=90485860-83e9-4fd9-b838-b28a9b7fda30&pf_rd_r=AH8W51R3X7Q34F72SQ7D&psc=1&refRID=AH8W51R3X7Q34F72SQ7D

~ "Coparenting Works!  Helping Your Children Thrive After Divorce" (Daughtry) - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0310325528/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o00__o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

~ "Between Two Homes: A Coparenting Handbook" (Craig) - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0692253319/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o02__o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

~ "The High Conflict Coparenting Survival Guide" (Hunter, Larochelle) - https://www.amazon.com/Coparenting-Wellness-Planner-High-Conflict-Cases/dp/1936268302/ref=sr_1_3?crid=2BMC4ENK81CU2&keywords=the+high-conflict+co-parenting+survival+guide&qid=1567699166&s=gateway&sprefix=high+conflict+co+par,aps,191&sr=8-3&fbclid=IwAR2_-zv8H9tmgn1qMCmWl--JFp0V8vSkBlQ1E35qZbI14RorW_MwX0rKFqc

~ "Collaborative Divorce Handbook" (Mosten) -https://www.amazon.com/Collaborative-Divorce-Handbook-Helping-Families/dp/0470395192/ref=sr_1_2?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1548853194&sr=1-2&keywords=collaborative+divorce

~ "Divorce Recovery Workbook..." (Rye, Moore) - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1626250707/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o02_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

~ "Toxic Divorce: A Workbook for Alienated Parents" (Reay) - https://www.amazon.com/Toxic-Divorce-Workbook-Alienated-Parents/dp/098691780X

~ "Primal Loss: The Now-Adult Children of Divorce Speak" (Miller) - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0997989319/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o09_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

~ "Divorce Poison: How to Protect Your Family From Badmouthing and Brainwashing" (Warshak) - https://www.amazon.com/Divorce-Poison-New-Updated-Bad-mouthing/dp/0061863262/ref=sr_1_3?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1506120673&sr=1-3&keywords=divorce+children

~ "After the Affair" (Spring) - https://www.amazon.com/After-Affair-Healing-Rebuilding-Unfaithful/dp/0062122703/ref=pd_bxgy_14_img_2?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=0062122703&pd_rd_r=90721094-23e8-11e9-ad19-fb6cb727d522&pd_rd_w=kRCaQ&pd_rd_wg=QoADd&pf_rd_p=6725dbd6-9917-451d-beba-16af7874e407&pf_rd_r=64FG3CNNR8D6CBD2234M&psc=1&refRID=64FG3CNNR8D6CBD2234M

~ "Getting Past the Affair" (Snyder, Baucom) - https://www.amazon.com/Getting-Past-Affair-Program-Together/dp/157230801X/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1506119096&sr=1-1&keywords=baucom+adultery

~ "How to Help Your Spouse Heal From Your Affair" (MacDonald) - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/145055332X/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o07__o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

~ "I Love You But I Don't Trust You: Complete Guide to Restoring Trust in Your Relationship" (Kirshenbaum) - https://www.amazon.com/dp/0425245314/ref=sspa_dk_detail_0?psc=1&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUEyOUVXSk9LR1NDWE9SJmVuY3J5cHRlZElkPUEwNDk1MTM1MVBFWUhEVVI5OTY0VCZlbmNyeXB0ZWRBZElkPUEwNzcyNzI0MVRaRkVOSjU4N0VOWiZ3aWRnZXROYW1lPXNwX2RldGFpbCZhY3Rpb249Y2xpY2tSZWRpcmVjdCZkb05vdExvZ0NsaWNrPXRydWU=

~ "When Sorry Isn't Enough" (Chapman, Thomas) - https://www.amazon.com/dp/0802407048

~ "The Life Recovery Bible" (Arterburn) - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1414316267/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o00__o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

~ "Love Sense" (Johnson) - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0316133760/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o03__o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

~ "Hold Me Tight"  (Johnson) - https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Me-Tight-Conversations-Lifetime/dp/031611300X/ref=pd_bxgy_14_img_2?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=031611300X&pd_rd_r=a764cf96-23e7-11e9-8307-3d1db5d50469&pd_rd_w=NdaaB&pd_rd_wg=ukeCw&pf_rd_p=6725dbd6-9917-451d-beba-16af7874e407&pf_rd_r=PJHXT0EYAAQXNSQGFM9P&psc=1&refRID=PJHXT0EYAAQXNSQGFM9P

~ "Created For Connection: The 'Hold Me Tight' Guide for Christian Couples"  (Johnson) - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01A5VQTDK/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_tkin_p1_i3

~ "The Love and Respect Workbook..."  (Eggerichs) - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1591453488/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o09__o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

~ "Love and Respect in the Family: The Respect Parents Desire, the Love Children Need"  (Eggerichs) -https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0849948207/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o01_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

~ "Passionate Marriage" (Schnarch) - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0393334279/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0393334279&linkCode=as2&tag=crucibleinsti-20&linkId=e417142d269e32d3d9d0f49758f277be

~ "Come As You Are:  The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life" (Nagoski) - https://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/1476762090/ref=pd_sbs_14_1/140-0371367-9962926?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=1476762090&pd_rd_r=95d2ac63-2f13-4465-8b93-1617f1e5b970&pd_rd_w=zvjdV&pd_rd_wg=PlN75&pf_rd_p=d66372fe-68a6-48a3-90ec-41d7f64212be&pf_rd_r=CP76T8GD6MWGJB93J4TD&psc=1&refRID=CP76T8GD6MWGJB93J4TD

~ "The Trauma Heart" (Crane) - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0757319815/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o09_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

~ "The PTSD Workbook" (Williams, Poijula) - https://www.amazon.com/PTSD-Workbook-Effective-Techniques-Overcoming/dp/1626253706

~ "The Body Keeps the Score" (van der Kolk) - https://www.amazon.com/Body-Keeps-Score-Healing-Trauma/dp/0143127748/ref=pd_sim_14_5?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=10RAMXNGZASQ3ET1RPPV

~ "A Terrible Thing Happened" (Holmes) - https://www.amazon.com/Terrible-Thing-Happened-Margaret-Holmes/dp/1557987017

~ "The Dialectical-Behavior Therapy Skills Workbook (McKay, Wood, Brantley) - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1572245131/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o06_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1er

~ "I Hate You But Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality" (Kreisman, Straus) - https://www.amazon.com/Hate-You-Dont-Leave-Understanding-Personality/dp/0399536213/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_pdt_img_top?ie=UTF8

~ "Stop Walking on Eggshells" (Mason, Kreger) - https://www.amazon.com/Stop-Walking-Eggshells-Borderline-Personality/dp/1572246901/ref=pd_sbs_14_1/140-0371367-9962926?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=1572246901&pd_rd_r=892cfe73-1f0f-4b86-9b12-60e659efe4a1&pd_rd_w=gaeHc&pd_rd_wg=T6uxA&pf_rd_p=d66372fe-68a6-48a3-90ec-41d7f64212be&pf_rd_r=SXEHB2V6D9WN6Q6VEP8H&psc=1&refRID=SXEHB2V6D9WN6Q6VEP8H

~ "Freedom From Self-Harm..."  (Gratz, Chapman, Walsh) - https://www.amazon.com/Freedom-Selfharm-Overcoming-Self-Injury-Treatments/dp/1572246162/ref=sr_1_5?keywords=self+harm&qid=1568049436&s=gateway&sr=8-5

~ "The CBT Toolbox: A Workbook..." (Riggenbach) - https://www.amazon.com/CBT-Toolbox-Workbook-Clients-Clinicians/dp/1936128306/ref=pd_rhf_ee_s_pd_crcd_0_5?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=1936128306&pd_rd_r=418ad48c-5df2-4c31-936b-263403de5702&pd_rd_w=KZyvf&pd_rd_wg=1VWtR&pf_rd_p=c6269878-d677-4a89-a68c-ff0df2b6ce6c&pf_rd_r=Y0GX6S9ST0KMPKSHBM8K&psc=1&refRID=Y0GX6S9ST0KMPKSHBM8K

~ "The Cognitive-Behavioral Workbook for Anxiety" (Knaus, Carlson) - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1626250154/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o05_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

~ "The Cognitive-Behavioral Workbook for Depression" (Knaus, Ellis) - https://www.amazon.com/Cognitive-Behavioral-Workbook-Depression-Step/dp/1608823806/ref=pd_bxgy_14_img_2/140-0371367-9962926?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=1608823806&pd_rd_r=37ef8076-15da-472c-8857-570573185e0e&pd_rd_w=oxOxp&pd_rd_wg=l8jUN&pf_rd_p=a2006322-0bc0-4db9-a08e-d168c18ce6f0&pf_rd_r=2RR162BC8YSRXTSK7FYF&psc=1&refRID=2RR162BC8YSRXTSK7FYF

~ "The Smart Stepfamily Marriage" (Deal) - https://www.amazon.com/Smart-Stepfamily-Marriage-Success-Blended/dp/0764213091/ref=sr_1_3?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1506119401&sr=1-3&keywords=ron+deal

~ "The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps..." (Deal) - https://www.amazon.com/Smart-Stepfamily-Seven-Healthy-Family/dp/0764212060/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1506119401&sr=1-1&keywords=ron+deal

~ "The Smart Stepdad..." (Deal) - https://www.amazon.com/Smart-Stepdad-Steps-Help-Succeed/dp/0764206966/ref=pd_sbs_14_3/140-0371367-9962926?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=0764206966&pd_rd_r=dc6365f6-5021-4031-b74c-99cccbe0090c&pd_rd_w=RucA7&pd_rd_wg=8y581&pf_rd_p=d66372fe-68a6-48a3-90ec-41d7f64212be&pf_rd_r=6AXDQPJF03S6Q136RC44&psc=1&refRID=6AXDQPJF03S6Q136RC44

~ "The Smart Stepmom..." (Deal, Petherbridge) - https://www.amazon.com/Smart-Stepmom-Practical-Steps-Thrive/dp/0764207024/ref=pd_bxgy_14_img_3/140-0371367-9962926?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=0764207024&pd_rd_r=23f92c4f-7abd-4510-8542-76396b7e76ed&pd_rd_w=O3NlZ&pd_rd_wg=JCmAy&pf_rd_p=a2006322-0bc0-4db9-a08e-d168c18ce6f0&pf_rd_r=S1EQDDVNH41BWVRJ874P&psc=1&refRID=S1EQDDVNH41BWVRJ874P

~ "The Remarriage Checkup..." (Deal) - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0764208535/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o04__o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

~ "The Smart Stepfamily Guide to Financial Planning..." (Deal, Pettys, Edwards) - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07PZZ483X/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_tkin_p1_i5

~ "Building Love Together in Blended Families: The Five Love Languages and Becoming Stepfamily Smart" (Chapman, Deal) - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07WJ1DFT6/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_tkin_p1_i3

~ "Dating and the Single Parent..." (Deal) - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0764206974/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i4

~ "The Dance of Fear" (Lerner) - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0060081589/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o08_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

~ "The Dance of Anger"  (Lerner) - https://www.amazon.com/Dance-Anger-Changing-Patterns-Relationships/dp/0062319043/ref=pd_bxgy_14_3?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=X502J331H3NQ83TJ2PHQ

~ "The 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work" (Gottman) - https://www.amazon.com/Seven-Principles-Making-Marriage-Work/dp/0553447718/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1506119795&sr=1-1&keywords=gottman+7+principles+for+making+marriage+work

~ "What Makes Love Last? How to Build Trust and Avoid Betrayal" (Gottman) - https://www.amazon.com/What-Makes-Love-Last-Betrayal/dp/1451608489/ref=pd_rhf_ee_s_pd_crcd_0_4?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=1451608489&pd_rd_r=c6026bc8-6984-475d-8644-f992cc3ec589&pd_rd_w=wYkeY&pd_rd_wg=TT0Fl&pf_rd_p=c6269878-d677-4a89-a68c-ff0df2b6ce6c&pf_rd_r=VB38AXH0Z3BTEA0JCGXN&psc=1&refRID=VB38AXH0Z3BTEA0JCGXN

~ "The 5 Love Languages"  (Chapman) - https://www.amazon.com/Love-Languages-Secret-that-Lasts/dp/080241270X/ref=pd_sim_14_7?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=53TB4A0KS2KXRZG68S3D

~ "The 5 Love Languages of Children"  (Chapman) - https://www.amazon.com/Love-Languages-Children-Secret-Effectively/dp/0802412858/ref=pd_sim_14_2?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=0Y6297GFJHPBF2TNBZ5J

~ "When Children Grieve..." (James, Friedman) - https://www.amazon.com/When-Children-Grieve-Adults-Divorce/dp/0060084294/ref=sr_1_6?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1548783954&sr=1-6&keywords=children+grief

~ "The Heart of Parenting: How to Raise an Emotionally Intelligent Child" (Gottman) - https://www.amazon.com/Heart-Parenting-Raise-Emotionally-Intelligent/dp/0747530580/ref=sr_1_4?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1548782350&sr=1-4&keywords=emotionally+intelligent+child

~ "Parenting With Love & Logic" (Cline, Fay) - https://www.amazon.com/Parenting-Love-Logic-Updated-Expanded/dp/1576839540/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1506120449&sr=8-1&keywords=parenting+love+logic

~ "The ADHD Workbook for Kids..." (Shapiro) - https://www.amazon.com/ADHD-Workbook-Kids-Self-Confidence-Self-Control/dp/1572247665/ref=sr_1_6?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1548783770&sr=1-6&keywords=ADHD

~ "The Shack: Reflections" (Young) - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1455523038/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o01_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

~ "Released From Shame" (Wilson) - https://www.amazon.com/Released-Shame-Moving-Beyond-Pain/dp/0830823344/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1506119975&sr=1-1&keywords=shame+wilson

~ "The Soul of Shame" (Thompson) - https://www.amazon.com/Soul-Shame-Retelling-Stories-Ourselves/dp/0830844333/ref=pd_sim_14_6?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=BJ2H8X6MDWK5YSVEQRH3

~ "Anatomy of the Soul" (Thompson) - https://www.amazon.com/Anatomy-Soul-Connections-Neuroscience-Relationships/dp/141433415X/ref=pd_sim_14_1?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=BBK7NNPS3MKGHYXZNAMS&dpID=51WebZe4npL&preST=_SY291_BO1,204,203,200_QL40_&dpSrc=detail

~ "Boundaries"  (Cloud, Townsend) - https://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-When-Take-Control-Your/dp/0310247454/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1506120287&sr=1-1&keywords=boundaries+townsend

~ "Emotional Blackmail... " (Forward, Frazier) - https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Blackmail-People-Obligation-Manipulate/dp/0060928972/ref=sr_1_16?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1548783558&sr=1-16&keywords=narcissistic+mother

~ "Why Is It Always About You: The Seven Deadly Sins of Narcissism"  (Hotchkiss, Masterson) - https://www.amazon.com/Why-Always-About-You-Narcissism/dp/0743214285/ref=sr_1_fkmr3_1?keywords=why+does+loving+you+having+to+hurt+me&qid=1568049059&s=books&sr=8-1-fkmr3

~ "The Covert Passive-Aggressive Narcissist... " (Mirza) - https://www.amazon.com/Covert-Passive-Aggressive-Narcissist-Recognizing-Psychological/dp/099862134X/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1548783190&sr=1-1-spons&keywords=narcissist&psc=1 

~ "The Four Facets of Grief"  (Field) - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B073ZMKKH2/ref=sspa_dk_detail_6?psc=1

~ "The Grief Recovery Handbook"  (James, Friedman) - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0061686077/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o03_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

~ "On Grief and Grieving"  (Kubler-Ross) - https://www.amazon.com/Grief-Grieving-Finding-Meaning-Through/dp/1476775559/ref=sr_1_4?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1506121021&sr=1-4&keywords=grief%5C

~ "Gift From the Sea" (Morrow-Lindbergh) - https://www.amazon.com/Gift-Sea-Anne-Morrow-Lindbergh/dp/0679406832/ref=asc_df_0679406832/?tag=bingshoppinga-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid={creative}&hvpos={adposition}&hvnetw=o&hvrand={random}&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=e&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl={devicemodel}&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=&hvtargid=pla-4583795260915598&psc=1

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